Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez have been navigating a complicated relationship, with Affleck reportedly putting a great deal of effort into rekindling their connection. However, this has come at a personal cost, as friends close to the actor have expressed concerns about his distancing from his family. According to In Touch, Affleck’s close circle, including his long-time friend Matt Damon and ex-wife Jennifer Garner, are worried about his pattern of getting too close to Lopez and then pulling away from his loved ones.
His friends are particularly troubled by what they perceive as a cycle of replacing one addiction with another, with some even suggesting that Affleck has become a “love addict.” This behavior has raised alarms about the emotional well-being of his children—Violet, 18, Fin, 15, and Samuel, 12—whom he shares with Garner. Sources claim the children are receiving mixed signals due to the fluctuating dynamics between their parents. Garner, in particular, is said to be deeply concerned, believing that the situation is harmful not only to Affleck but also to their families.
On the other hand, Lopez is reportedly feeling frustrated by the instability. In Touch suggests that she’s considering taking a break from dating altogether, as the turbulence with Affleck has started to wear her down.
Despite the ups and downs, the former couple seems to maintain a bond when it comes to family matters. Recently, they were spotted having a cozy brunch with their kids in Los Angeles, sparking rumors of a rekindled relationship. According to People, while they are still moving forward with their divorce, family remains a priority. “Family is very important to them, and together they were family people,” an insider revealed, adding that their connection hasn’t entirely faded.
Though they successfully blended their families during their time together, insiders say that fundamental differences between the two contributed to their split. Lopez is described as more public and outgoing, while Affleck prefers a quieter, introverted lifestyle.
Affleck, who reportedly suggested the recent family meetup, wanted to demonstrate that they could remain friendly exes. According to a source from Page Six, “Once they were together, he couldn’t keep his hands off her,” but despite the affectionate display, they are still working out the details of their separation.
In the end, while the public appearances may suggest otherwise, it seems the couple is still on a path toward finalizing their divorce, focusing on their individual lives while continuing to co-parent.